Comments on: Unexpected…. http://www.soapnights.com/2009/02/18/unexpected/ Kristin Nicole's Thoughts - Everyday life Mon, 30 Jan 2012 20:57:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.2 By: Mom http://www.soapnights.com/2009/02/18/unexpected/comment-page-1/#comment-2877 Mom Sat, 21 Feb 2009 03:16:13 +0000 http://www.soapnights.com/?p=220#comment-2877 Wow!!! daddy made me cry too... Que llorona lol.... As parents when you are in the moment the things you say and do seem right. As you get older you realize there are things you can't change but wish you could. As you get older and one day have kids of your own you'll disreguard what you didn't like of your childhood and you will do it your way, and trust me your kids will complain about something. And you'll also realize oh, this is what mom meant and then you'll turn into me or dad and then you'll really realize the circle of life. We love you so much and always remember that no matter how inperfect dad is all we have and all your good qualities come from him. Love You Wow!!! daddy made me cry too… Que llorona lol…. As parents when you are in the moment the things you say and do seem right. As you get older you realize there are things you can’t change but wish you could. As you get older and one day have kids of your own you’ll disreguard what you didn’t like of your childhood and you will do it your way, and trust me your kids will complain about something. And you’ll also realize oh, this is what mom meant and then you’ll turn into me or dad and then you’ll really realize the circle of life. We love you so much and always remember that no matter how inperfect dad is all we have and all your good qualities come from him. Love You

]]> By: Pete http://www.soapnights.com/2009/02/18/unexpected/comment-page-1/#comment-2872 Pete Fri, 20 Feb 2009 15:36:16 +0000 http://www.soapnights.com/?p=220#comment-2872 Hello, Kristin Your Mom send me last night a e mail to look at what you have written. I am touch on how you put your feelings into words. I could not keep my eyes dry as I read and write this to you. First I want you to know that I LOVE YOU . I know I have not been a perfect father but I can guarantee you that my family is always first over anything in my life. The writings on how you describe your feelings with your Uncle I just want to say that we just grew apart and we had very little in common with ea other but I loved him as I know he loved you and your brother and sister. You have made me a proud Father. I feel so proud and love you so much that its difficult for me to put it in words. I have never been a individual who show my feelings I think you know this up to now. I look back and think of the good times we had when you were growing up. In the pool together , Christmas when you would got up early and open all your gifts as well as the times when we went out to eat and you would scream if you wanted something and the whole restaurant would stare at us, I always got a kick out of that. On your sleeping issues relax and maybe have a glass of wine before going to bed and think of positive things. You are doing a great thing by posting some of the bad news that happens around our community. Keep doing what you are doing you are a good woman and human being and god will bless you for your doings. Be relentless on things you want out of Life and you will get them. Again I love you. A PROUD FATHER. Hello, Kristin Your Mom send me last night a e mail to look at what you have written. I am touch on how you put your feelings into words. I could not keep my eyes dry as I read and write this to you. First I want you to know that I LOVE YOU . I know I have not been a perfect father but I can guarantee you that my family is always first over anything in my life. The writings on how you describe your feelings with your Uncle I just want to say that we just grew apart and we had very little in common with ea other but I loved him as I know he loved you and your brother and sister. You have made me a proud Father. I feel so proud and love you so much that its difficult for me to put it in words. I have never been a individual who show my feelings I think you know this up to now. I look back and think of the good times we had when you were growing up. In the pool together , Christmas when you would got up early and open all your gifts as well as the times when we went out to eat and you would scream if you wanted something and the whole restaurant would stare at us, I always got a kick out of that. On your sleeping issues relax and maybe have a glass of wine before going to bed and think of positive things. You are doing a great thing by posting some of the bad news that happens around our community. Keep doing what you are doing you are a good woman and human being and god will bless you for your doings. Be relentless on things you want out of Life and you will get them. Again I love you.

A PROUD FATHER.

]]> By: Mom http://www.soapnights.com/2009/02/18/unexpected/comment-page-1/#comment-2867 Mom Fri, 20 Feb 2009 03:54:37 +0000 http://www.soapnights.com/?p=220#comment-2867 I agree with Tony he's a smart guy. When someone that we love hurts us, specially when we are little sometimes it is very difficult to get over it. Although, we do move on and we still have the hopes for that person to change, they don't. People are how they are and we either acccept them or be very lonely. The only way to truly move on, is to forgive that person from the heart. To really feel that inner peace when you declare forgivness. Just know that when Uncle David died he had your letter in his wallet he knew you loved him in your own way and believe me he loved you too. Unfortunately, like you said life is too short and one minute your taking pictures on vacation and the next your in critical condition hanging by a thread. So, if we know all this, is it worth holding grudges and resentments? The only ones really hurting us is ourselves. I've always said family whether you see them once a year or don't even know them at all they are a part of you and are worthy of your love. You don't have to be their best friends but just try. History repeats itself. The ony way and I know this for a fact by personal experience to put the past in the past is to forgive yourself and the other person. Think about it, life is toooo short. Live it as if today is your last day. Boy that sounds so good, now lets see if we all put it to practice. Love You I agree with Tony he’s a smart guy.
When someone that we love hurts us, specially when we are little sometimes it is very difficult to get over it. Although, we do move on and we still have the hopes for that person to change, they don’t. People are how they are and we either acccept them or be very lonely. The only way to truly move on, is to forgive that person from the heart. To really feel that inner peace when you declare forgivness. Just know that when Uncle David died he had your letter in his wallet he knew you loved him in your own way and believe me he loved you too. Unfortunately, like you said life is too short and one minute your taking pictures on vacation and the next your in critical condition hanging by a thread. So, if we know all this, is it worth holding grudges and resentments? The only ones really hurting us is ourselves. I’ve always said family whether you see them once a year or don’t even know them at all they are a part of you and are worthy of your love. You don’t have to be their best friends but just try. History repeats itself. The ony way and I know this for a fact by personal experience to put the past in the past is to forgive yourself and the other person. Think about it, life is toooo short. Live it as if today is your last day. Boy that sounds so good, now lets see if we all put it to practice. Love You

]]> By: Tony Carrera http://www.soapnights.com/2009/02/18/unexpected/comment-page-1/#comment-2859 Tony Carrera Wed, 18 Feb 2009 14:04:02 +0000 http://www.soapnights.com/?p=220#comment-2859 Wow. That was really honest, moving, and openly beautiful. Keep writing like this and you'll have a book one day :-) Wow. That was really honest, moving, and openly beautiful.

Keep writing like this and you’ll have a book one day :-)

]]>