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Comment on Happy Valentine’s Day by stephanie

stephanie — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 20:57:48 +0000

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Comment on Is it adultery if the spouse moves out & has someone else? by potpot

potpot — Thu, 12 Jan 2012 03:50:40 +0000

If try to be a morally good person then the act of seeing someone is evil. IT has beeb said that what ever God had put together they must not be separated in whatever ways. It is one of the ten commandments- Thou shall not commit adultery. Thus Matrimony is a sacred act.

Comment on My husband doesn’t want to have sex anymore… by Amy

Amy — Sun, 08 Jan 2012 19:05:16 +0000

My husband hadn’t really had a sex life for over 40 years. Our wedding night was the only time we had great sex and intimate bonding. After that there was nothing no sex, intimacy, loving, kissing, cuddling. After our first month together he moved all his stuff down stairs and built an apartment for himself and to this day hes still down there and his shop out back on our property. I was a young bride and I thought things would get better but they never did. I wish I had left him, but I was embarassed to admit there were problems, plus I would experience pressure from my parents. All this time has past no kids really no husband to speak of and all alone. I did have sex on the side and it didn’t matter to him. Now I might have to come down to his level , I’m having a hysterectomy and my doctor said chances are good sex urges will be gone, or limited. I’ve been so unhappy all these years, he ruined my life, hopefully I will find light at the end of the tunnel.

Comment on My husband wanted a baby, now I’m pregnant and he wants a divorce… by andreia

andreia — Mon, 26 Dec 2011 22:29:12 +0000

Im going through the same thing me and my husband been married a year. We have been trying for a baby now that im 3 mths pregnant its like he doesn’t care. He skip out on dr appointment he has been away lately he say he working out of town. I’ve accused him of cheating he said it not true that he loves me we just have issues that need to be worked out. But he avoid me every time I try to talk about it. We are still having sex but his just not coming home like he was weeks ago he even bailed on Xmas that’s I i hit the fan and told I was done and come get his stuff. That’s not really what i want i love him he says he love me but y isn’t he here. Im not going be just a wife and home he can come to when he gets ready.

Comment on My husband wants me to try Swinging… by Fred

Fred — Sun, 25 Dec 2011 18:30:56 +0000

Your husband loves you, otherwise, he would just cheat and not tell you if his needs weren’t being met. Instead, he wants to include you. If there are other women involved, it will be nice that you are part of it and not wondering if he is cheating. Emotionally he is still all yours. He is just needing some fantasys fulfilled. If you are there, its not really cheating, to him emotionally, its more like taking you to a baseball game. So, you should try it. You may like it. If not, tell him you dont. But, you should at least try it if you dont want to loose him eventually.

Comment on Is Romance Overrated?!? by Kristin

Kristin — Fri, 02 Dec 2011 17:47:20 +0000

Thank you

Comment on Is Romance Overrated?!? by Jarde

Jarde — Fri, 02 Dec 2011 15:38:20 +0000

Love Love Love ittt <3

Comment on My husband wanted a baby, now I’m pregnant and he wants a divorce… by Katy

Katy — Mon, 14 Nov 2011 07:40:28 +0000

I’m now 17 weeks pregnant and am starting showing. Before getting pregnant, we were talking about me getting pregnant many times. He told he wants us to have a kid sometimes soon. However, after I told him that I’m pregnant, he said he is not ready for the baby. Initially he wanted me to consider an abortion. I told him that if he ever will tell that again I’ll just leave. AFter that, he just ignores the fact that I’m pregnant. He doesn’t want to talk about that at all. If I start hinting on it, he says, “don’t put so much pressure on me”. He also puts his hand against my stomach pressing on it as if it will prevent him from fatherhood. He is not concerned about my pregnancy. He yells at me for small reasons and then apologizes and kisses me and tells me how much he loves me and that he will never will hurt my feelings again.

Comment on His Religious Parents Don’t approve & I feel Guilty he left home for me… by Kristin

Kristin — Fri, 28 Oct 2011 12:37:02 +0000

Dear Guilty,

It’s hard if you have already tried talking to them and they refuse to change their minds… This probably means that they won’t change their minds. I do not like to judge, but honestly if they are physically abusing your boyfriend, then his parents are not great parents to begin with. I know in your religion things work differently, but abuse is abuse, and there is no excuse for it. You boyfriend is 24, he needs to stand up to them, tell them that if they don’t accept you in their lives, if they don’t accept your relationship then they can’t be in his life. (I know this is against your religion, but it’s either this or go your separate ways). I know you feel guilty but like I said, if they didn’t do this with you, they would have done it with another woman that he would have dated. Parents that are that controlling will never feel that anyone is ever good enough for their son. If your parents have supported you until now explain to them the situation, explain that you know it isn’t couture to move in with him without being married but this is the only way you guys can be together without something worse happening to him by his parents hands.

I know the both of you are in love, but any relationship where the parents disapprove and cause more hurt, is a hard relationship to keep. You have to keep communicating with your boyfriend and you have to stay strong. If you want this relationship to work, you will have to accept the situation as it is and not feel guilty about his separation from his family. The only one that is guilty for this separation is his parents.

If you want to make it work, stop feeling guilty. His parents will either have to accept your relationship or lose their son.

Good luck.

xo
kristin nicole

Comment on His Religious Parents Don’t approve & I feel Guilty he left home for me… by guilty

guilty — Fri, 28 Oct 2011 09:04:53 +0000

hey kristin,
thanks for the help. i really appreciate it.

To answer your question, i am hindu. The situation has become so worse that they would take away his phone if they feel that he is talking to me. one night it got so bad that i was about to call 911 because that night they beat him so bad that he was bleeding. His parents wont let him even step out of his house and if they do there is always someone with him ( either his dad or mom ). i have no idea why they are so against of our love. we have done nothing to hurt them.
my boyfriend has talked to them about everything u have mentioned above. and his parents dont want to meet me at all. i tried meetig his mom but it was in vain. she didnt even stand there for a minute.all she said was “u have done some blackmagic on my child give me my old son back” i have talked to his parents over the phone to make them understand. but they just DONT want to understand. we have tried EVERYTHING from begging, pleading, requesting, getting angry/upset but NOTHING works on them. they are just very insecure and since my bf loves me a lot they just feel that if i enter into their family he will only do what I want. we have been trying for 3 months now to tell them it’s not true. my bf does not blame me for anything infact he is saying he has decided he wants to spend his life with me and if his parents cant respect his love he doesnt want them in his life anymore. and to be honest the only way to make this relationship work is for him to move out.

do you think now there is any other way to solve this than for him to move out ? we have tried communicating for 3 months now. and i keep asking about another solution to this situation because i feel super guilty about seperating parents from their child and also becos my parents arent supporting this decision.
p.s. my parents have supported us in every of our decision so far but now they are not supporting moving out decision ( cos our society and culture dont permit this )