17 thoughts on “Contact”

1. hey there. I have some more questions that needs to be answered and i cant really get any good answers these days. I was wondering (if you dont mind) if you could answer some of my other questions (only if you want too.) I am already your friend on Yahoo Answers named ‘summerlove’

2. Dear Selina,

   Sure I can answer more of your questions. If you like to keep it confidential, send me an email at soapnights@gmail.com and I will try to answer your questions. If it’s a question I would like to post on my site I would love to get your approval and I wouldn’t use any names. Email me and I’ll get back to you as soon as possible.

   xo,
   kristin nicole

3. Hi, i just wanted to tell u how much i admire what ur doing with this website. u answered 1 of my yahoo questions about weather virginity really even matters anymore n i thank u for helping me stay on my original path i set for myself. if u ever need help promoting ur site please do not hesitate 2 email me and i will do what i can.

   thanks again
   sam t.

4. Dear Sam,

   You are very welcome. My goal is to try and give my up most honest advice. I would greatly appreciate you passing the word around about my website, that would be great!!! If you ever need advice please do not hesitate to contact me via my website or by email at soapnights@gmail.com

   Have a wonderful week and weekend.

   xo,
   kristin nicole

5. i sent you an email with my question..i don’t know if you got that or not…as i tried contacting you before too with some question but i thought may be it went into spam ? this time my question is bit urgent !! thank u kristin..looking forward to ur help..

6. Dear Confused;

   I replied to your email, please let me know if you didn’t get it.

   xo,
   kristin nicole

7. The question was what would I have to do to field for divorce cause my wife cheated on me after 2 months of getting married we been married a year an one month to be exact we got married January 14 last year an I’m so depress cause not only I know that is no love I know that she don’t love me but that is a baby involve that is carrying my last name an I don’t know if I’m the father or not honestly I don’t think I am. I really need to talk to u or someone cause I’m so hurt that all I keep thinking is to end my life please I need help please I need help I don’t deserve what going on I’m such a good guy that this is ridiculos what is happening to me like I said I need help….

8. To file for a divorce you have to like I said either go to the court house and see what process is needed to file on your own or consult in a lawyer. This is a very difficult situation in regards to the fact she is pregnant, you definitely will need to get a paternity test. You can also consult in a lawyer on what the procedure is for this. Ending your life is not the answer. I know you are hurting and what she did really sucks and it’s painful but it’s not the end of the world (TRUST ME). Life is hard and it comes with unexpected bumps in the road but we have to keep moving forward, learn from them and grow from them. If you are the father, it does not mean you have to stay with her, you can file for custody and or share custody with your wife. The baby has no fault in what she did, so if the baby is yours, it is a blessing. If the baby is not yours, it will be easier to move on and move forward with your life. What she did to you, no one deserves and trust me there is a woman out there who will love you for you, and they won’t cheat on you. Stay strong, and NEVER GIVE UP. Giving up is the easy way out. I know it hurts now and it may seem like nothing is going to make this better but trust me, time does heal all wounds. When you least expect it, things will start looking up.

   xo,
   kristin nicole

   You can email me if you like at soapnights@gmail.com

9. Thank u I really need it that the baby is gorgeous is a baby girl have two months right now i know is not the baby’s fault I have doubts cause she don’t even let me hold the baby so u can imagine she always come out with an excuse for me not to hold the baby at this point I’m so hurt, but I thank cause I thought no one care n u prove me wrong but like I said thank u…

10. Marc,

    I thought the baby wasn’t born yet, in this case you can definitely get a paternity test done. She has no right to keep you from the baby if the baby is yours. Find out, and don’t stop for answers until you get them. Never give up on life, there is always a rainbow on the other side

    Keep in touch

    xo,
    kristin nicole

11. Hi you told me contact you on advice on my wife? what do i do you answered it on yahoo

12. J,

    Not sure what you are asking. I answered what I could on your question. If you need more advice please email me. soapnighs@gmail.com

    xo,
    kristin nicole

13. Hey kristin, i am in desperate need of help. I have been in a relationship for few years now. we are 24. and want to get engaged. in our culture we have to take parents’ permission to get engaged and for engagement ceremony parents sit down and decided date etc. his parents had no reason to say no to this relationship ( i am as educated as he is, i earn as much as he does, we are from same culture, same religion, same caste, same well educated family background, as good looking as he is, loves him as much he does ). his parents first made some excuses and let us date. but when it started getting serious they have been so stubborn and blackmailing him ( by saying they will die if he moves out and get married to me ) , beating him up ( I AM SERIOUS. they are beating up 24 year old guy. they lock him up in the room just so that he cant come see me ) torturing him ( by saying things like they ll kill themselves if he get married to me, that he has forgotten their 24 years of raising for one girl etc ). his parents even called my parents and abused them and asked them to not let me keep any contact with him.
    TALKING and asking for reasons of their NO doesnt work. all they have to say is ” we feel that if you guys get married. it ll end up in a divorce. his parents havent even met me yet and they said no because they feel he loves me so much and i ll take advantage of it in future. ”
    he loves me a lot. and he has been going through al this suffering just to get YES from his parents. ( bcos he doesnt want his parents to blame me to snatch away their child in future ) now he has finally decided to move out ( after 3 months of painful suffering ) just because of me. i dont know why i feel guilty of his seperation from his parents ! i feel if i never came to his life he wouldnt have gone through all this **** and crap ! am i doing the wrong thing by wanting to spend my life with him and by making him move out of his house ?

    what is the best solution in this situation !
    I NEED HELP. i have been under severe depression and stress and frustration and i cant take it anymore. I NEED TO KNOW IF THERE IS ANY OTHER SOLUTION !
    waiting for your reply

    guilty ?

14. Dear Guilty

    I have replied to you via email. Please let me know if you did not get it.

    xo,
    kristin nicole

15. Hello, I have been with my bf of 8 yrs and we have 2 kids together..the last 3 yrs have kind of gone downhill due to me finding out he was talkin n txtin other women for sex online and thru emails..I then told him to leave n he begged for forgiveness and told me he loved me..I didnt forgive him but i gave him another chance n bout few mos later he did it again but i didnt say anything i decided to not be his fool anymore and 2 can play this game so i started seeing a guy frm work n we have fallen in love hes 25 im 32..We have been doin this for 2 years n now im 5 weeks pregnant and i dnt know who the father is between the two..My bf doesnt know im pregnant but my lover does and hes stressin out he wants to kno for sure if hes the father and wants to do a prenatal dna test but its expensive ..my question now is do i just come clean n tell my bf i cheated and got pregnant? I slept with both of them bout 4 days apart..or do i juz wait it out and see if we can get money for a dna test..im lost n dnt know what to do..thank u for listenting plz email ur reply..

16. Hello, Im 22 and got out of prison 6months ago. I come from a small town. I robbed over 20 places around the area were I live. Now I’m not a bad person, I’m just a person that made bad choices. I became addicted to anny dope and was stealing to support my habbit. I never would have done the things I did otherwise……how can let people know I’m not some scumbag….it is so hard…. I even. have family that. Wont talk 2 me…..what are some actions I can take 2 show people I’m different.

17. Sorry I haven’t responded. I’m out of town…. All you can do to try and show people you have changed and start changing. Apologize to those you hurt, that’s a start. You have to remember if you hurt those you care about it is going to take time for them to forgive you and see that you have truly changed. Start making changes and hopefully you will show them that you are serious about changing and hopefully they will come around. You need to give them time, I you have done what you said it takes time for people to come around and you need to understand that. Good luck.

    xo
    kristin nicole