Comments on: Contact http://www.soapnights.com Kristin Nicole's Thoughts - Everyday life Mon, 30 Jan 2012 20:57:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.2 By: Kristin http://www.soapnights.com/contact/comment-page-1/#comment-12594 Kristin Thu, 27 Oct 2011 15:12:43 +0000 http://www.soapnights.com/?page_id=216#comment-12594 Dear Guilty I have replied to you via email. Please let me know if you did not get it. xo, kristin nicole Dear Guilty

I have replied to you via email. Please let me know if you did not get it.

xo,
kristin nicole

]]> By: guilty http://www.soapnights.com/contact/comment-page-1/#comment-12591 guilty Thu, 27 Oct 2011 09:33:30 +0000 http://www.soapnights.com/?page_id=216#comment-12591 Hey kristin, i am in desperate need of help. I have been in a relationship for few years now. we are 24. and want to get engaged. in our culture we have to take parents' permission to get engaged and for engagement ceremony parents sit down and decided date etc. his parents had no reason to say no to this relationship ( i am as educated as he is, i earn as much as he does, we are from same culture, same religion, same caste, same well educated family background, as good looking as he is, loves him as much he does ). his parents first made some excuses and let us date. but when it started getting serious they have been so stubborn and blackmailing him ( by saying they will die if he moves out and get married to me ) , beating him up ( I AM SERIOUS. they are beating up 24 year old guy. they lock him up in the room just so that he cant come see me ) torturing him ( by saying things like they ll kill themselves if he get married to me, that he has forgotten their 24 years of raising for one girl etc ). his parents even called my parents and abused them and asked them to not let me keep any contact with him. TALKING and asking for reasons of their NO doesnt work. all they have to say is " we feel that if you guys get married. it ll end up in a divorce. his parents havent even met me yet and they said no because they feel he loves me so much and i ll take advantage of it in future. " he loves me a lot. and he has been going through al this suffering just to get YES from his parents. ( bcos he doesnt want his parents to blame me to snatch away their child in future ) now he has finally decided to move out ( after 3 months of painful suffering ) just because of me. i dont know why i feel guilty of his seperation from his parents ! i feel if i never came to his life he wouldnt have gone through all this **** and crap ! am i doing the wrong thing by wanting to spend my life with him and by making him move out of his house ? what is the best solution in this situation ! I NEED HELP. i have been under severe depression and stress and frustration and i cant take it anymore. I NEED TO KNOW IF THERE IS ANY OTHER SOLUTION ! waiting for your reply guilty ? Hey kristin, i am in desperate need of help. I have been in a relationship for few years now. we are 24. and want to get engaged. in our culture we have to take parents’ permission to get engaged and for engagement ceremony parents sit down and decided date etc. his parents had no reason to say no to this relationship ( i am as educated as he is, i earn as much as he does, we are from same culture, same religion, same caste, same well educated family background, as good looking as he is, loves him as much he does ). his parents first made some excuses and let us date. but when it started getting serious they have been so stubborn and blackmailing him ( by saying they will die if he moves out and get married to me ) , beating him up ( I AM SERIOUS. they are beating up 24 year old guy. they lock him up in the room just so that he cant come see me ) torturing him ( by saying things like they ll kill themselves if he get married to me, that he has forgotten their 24 years of raising for one girl etc ). his parents even called my parents and abused them and asked them to not let me keep any contact with him.
TALKING and asking for reasons of their NO doesnt work. all they have to say is ” we feel that if you guys get married. it ll end up in a divorce. his parents havent even met me yet and they said no because they feel he loves me so much and i ll take advantage of it in future. ”
he loves me a lot. and he has been going through al this suffering just to get YES from his parents. ( bcos he doesnt want his parents to blame me to snatch away their child in future ) now he has finally decided to move out ( after 3 months of painful suffering ) just because of me. i dont know why i feel guilty of his seperation from his parents ! i feel if i never came to his life he wouldnt have gone through all this **** and crap ! am i doing the wrong thing by wanting to spend my life with him and by making him move out of his house ?

what is the best solution in this situation !
I NEED HELP. i have been under severe depression and stress and frustration and i cant take it anymore. I NEED TO KNOW IF THERE IS ANY OTHER SOLUTION !
waiting for your reply

guilty ?

]]> By: Kristin http://www.soapnights.com/contact/comment-page-1/#comment-11472 Kristin Tue, 07 Jun 2011 20:52:18 +0000 http://www.soapnights.com/?page_id=216#comment-11472 J, Not sure what you are asking. I answered what I could on your question. If you need more advice please email me. soapnighs@gmail.com xo, kristin nicole J,

Not sure what you are asking. I answered what I could on your question. If you need more advice please email me. soapnighs@gmail.com

xo,
kristin nicole

]]> By: Jorg muller http://www.soapnights.com/contact/comment-page-1/#comment-11469 Jorg muller Tue, 07 Jun 2011 12:57:11 +0000 http://www.soapnights.com/?page_id=216#comment-11469 Hi you told me contact you on advice on my wife? what do i do you answered it on yahoo Hi you told me contact you on advice on my wife? what do i do you answered it on yahoo

]]> By: Kristin http://www.soapnights.com/contact/comment-page-1/#comment-9658 Kristin Wed, 16 Feb 2011 19:44:59 +0000 http://www.soapnights.com/?page_id=216#comment-9658 Marc, I thought the baby wasn't born yet, in this case you can definitely get a paternity test done. She has no right to keep you from the baby if the baby is yours. Find out, and don't stop for answers until you get them. Never give up on life, there is always a rainbow on the other side ;) Keep in touch xo, kristin nicole Marc,

I thought the baby wasn’t born yet, in this case you can definitely get a paternity test done. She has no right to keep you from the baby if the baby is yours. Find out, and don’t stop for answers until you get them. Never give up on life, there is always a rainbow on the other side ;)

Keep in touch

xo,
kristin nicole

]]> By: Marc Marrero http://www.soapnights.com/contact/comment-page-1/#comment-9648 Marc Marrero Wed, 16 Feb 2011 07:12:19 +0000 http://www.soapnights.com/?page_id=216#comment-9648 Thank u I really need it that the baby is gorgeous is a baby girl have two months right now i know is not the baby's fault I have doubts cause she don't even let me hold the baby so u can imagine she always come out with an excuse for me not to hold the baby at this point I'm so hurt, but I thank cause I thought no one care n u prove me wrong but like I said thank u... Thank u I really need it that the baby is gorgeous is a baby girl have two months right now i know is not the baby’s fault I have doubts cause she don’t even let me hold the baby so u can imagine she always come out with an excuse for me not to hold the baby at this point I’m so hurt, but I thank cause I thought no one care n u prove me wrong but like I said thank u…

]]> By: Kristin http://www.soapnights.com/contact/comment-page-1/#comment-9639 Kristin Tue, 15 Feb 2011 21:57:54 +0000 http://www.soapnights.com/?page_id=216#comment-9639 To file for a divorce you have to like I said either go to the court house and see what process is needed to file on your own or consult in a lawyer. This is a very difficult situation in regards to the fact she is pregnant, you definitely will need to get a paternity test. You can also consult in a lawyer on what the procedure is for this. Ending your life is not the answer. I know you are hurting and what she did really sucks and it's painful but it's not the end of the world (TRUST ME). Life is hard and it comes with unexpected bumps in the road but we have to keep moving forward, learn from them and grow from them. If you are the father, it does not mean you have to stay with her, you can file for custody and or share custody with your wife. The baby has no fault in what she did, so if the baby is yours, it is a blessing. If the baby is not yours, it will be easier to move on and move forward with your life. What she did to you, no one deserves and trust me there is a woman out there who will love you for you, and they won't cheat on you. Stay strong, and NEVER GIVE UP. Giving up is the easy way out. I know it hurts now and it may seem like nothing is going to make this better but trust me, time does heal all wounds. When you least expect it, things will start looking up. xo, kristin nicole You can email me if you like at soapnights@gmail.com To file for a divorce you have to like I said either go to the court house and see what process is needed to file on your own or consult in a lawyer. This is a very difficult situation in regards to the fact she is pregnant, you definitely will need to get a paternity test. You can also consult in a lawyer on what the procedure is for this. Ending your life is not the answer. I know you are hurting and what she did really sucks and it’s painful but it’s not the end of the world (TRUST ME). Life is hard and it comes with unexpected bumps in the road but we have to keep moving forward, learn from them and grow from them. If you are the father, it does not mean you have to stay with her, you can file for custody and or share custody with your wife. The baby has no fault in what she did, so if the baby is yours, it is a blessing. If the baby is not yours, it will be easier to move on and move forward with your life. What she did to you, no one deserves and trust me there is a woman out there who will love you for you, and they won’t cheat on you. Stay strong, and NEVER GIVE UP. Giving up is the easy way out. I know it hurts now and it may seem like nothing is going to make this better but trust me, time does heal all wounds. When you least expect it, things will start looking up.

xo,
kristin nicole

You can email me if you like at soapnights@gmail.com

]]> By: Marc Marrero http://www.soapnights.com/contact/comment-page-1/#comment-9636 Marc Marrero Tue, 15 Feb 2011 17:59:47 +0000 http://www.soapnights.com/?page_id=216#comment-9636 The question was what would I have to do to field for divorce cause my wife cheated on me after 2 months of getting married we been married a year an one month to be exact we got married January 14 last year an I'm so depress cause not only I know that is no love I know that she don't love me but that is a baby involve that is carrying my last name an I don't know if I'm the father or not honestly I don't think I am. I really need to talk to u or someone cause I'm so hurt that all I keep thinking is to end my life please I need help please I need help I don't deserve what going on I'm such a good guy that this is ridiculos what is happening to me like I said I need help.... The question was what would I have to do to field for divorce cause my wife cheated on me after 2 months of getting married we been married a year an one month to be exact we got married January 14 last year an I’m so depress cause not only I know that is no love I know that she don’t love me but that is a baby involve that is carrying my last name an I don’t know if I’m the father or not honestly I don’t think I am. I really need to talk to u or someone cause I’m so hurt that all I keep thinking is to end my life please I need help please I need help I don’t deserve what going on I’m such a good guy that this is ridiculos what is happening to me like I said I need help….

]]> By: Kristin http://www.soapnights.com/contact/comment-page-1/#comment-8469 Kristin Sun, 07 Nov 2010 16:27:01 +0000 http://www.soapnights.com/?page_id=216#comment-8469 Dear Confused; I replied to your email, please let me know if you didn't get it. xo, kristin nicole Dear Confused;

I replied to your email, please let me know if you didn’t get it.

xo,
kristin nicole

]]> By: confused http://www.soapnights.com/contact/comment-page-1/#comment-8464 confused Sat, 06 Nov 2010 14:41:43 +0000 http://www.soapnights.com/?page_id=216#comment-8464 i sent you an email with my question..i don't know if you got that or not...as i tried contacting you before too with some question but i thought may be it went into spam ? this time my question is bit urgent !! thank u kristin..looking forward to ur help.. i sent you an email with my question..i don’t know if you got that or not…as i tried contacting you before too with some question but i thought may be it went into spam ? this time my question is bit urgent !! thank u kristin..looking forward to ur help..

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